Helping Your Child Break the Pacifier Habit

Helping Your Child Break the Pacifier Habit

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Whether they’re crystal clear or neon-bright, pacifiers are the modern baby’s accessory of choice. Thanks to studies showing that they reduce the incidence of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), most pediatricians have given pacifiers the green light. A study in Pediatrics found that a whopping 68 percent of parents give them to their babies before six weeks of age. 

Babies aren’t the only ones who love them. Parents quickly become addicted to the pacifier’s soothing effects on their offspring. Unfortunately, pacifiers often become a habit that overstays its welcome.

Why Wean?

While some children give up non-nutritive or comfort sucking on their own, others cling to the habit well into their preschool years. According to Lotus Su, D.D.S., of Pediatric Dental Associates in Lakewood, Washington, using a pacifier too much or for too long can contribute to dental problems, including deformation of the palate and shifting of the teeth, as well as mouth-breathing and dry mouth, which may increase susceptibility to tooth decay.

Many doctors and dentists recommend ending the habit before permanent front teeth begin to emerge, which can happen before kindergarten. “I recommend stopping pacifier use by age 3,” Su says. 

“The earlier a pacifier habit is stopped, the less likely that there will be any dental problems.”

Potential problems extend beyond the teeth. Pacifier use is also associated with otitis media, or middle ear infections. Minor health upsets like gastrointestinal infections and oral thrush are also more common in pacifier users. 

Parents may be persuaded by medical data and dentists’ recommendations, but kids often need some coaxing to give up the long-held habit. Guilt-inducing lectures about dental problems or germs may be counterproductive, causing them to dig in their heels. Instead, help them become confidently pacifier-free with these tactics:

Book Encouragement 

Before embarking on a pacifier purge, check out some children’s books on the topic. After listening to stories like “The Last Noo-Noo” by Jill Murphy or “Pacifiers Are Not Forever” by Elizabeth Verdick, your child may be more receptive to the idea.

Pacifier Bear

When 3-year-old Violet was ready to give up her pacifier, mom Bec Langham took her to a popular build-your-own-stuffed-animal store. Violet deposited her last pacifier safely inside her teddy bear before it was sewn up. The bear now serves as both a cuddly friend and a unique reminder of Violet’s younger days.

Baby Charity

Your child may be willing to donate her pacifiers to a good cause. Gather up the pacifiers, and pay a visit to a friend with a young baby. Have your child “gift” her pacifier collection to the baby, and shower her with praise for her generosity.

The Paci Fairy

Steal this idea from Supernanny Jo Frost: have your child place his or her pacifiers in a large envelope to mail to the “pacifier fairy”, and put the envelope in the mailbox together before bed. Once your child is asleep, swap the envelope for a new toy. When he or she wakes up, excitedly take them to the mailbox to find the new treasure.

Out of Sight, Out of Mind

Parents seeking the quickest route to pacifier freedom can simply throw them all away. Kelly Stallings opted for the cold-turkey approach with daughter Taylor. “The first night was rough, but after that, she didn’t care,” Stallings says. 

Just make sure to get rid of each and every one, so your child isn’t tempted to relapse (and you’re not tempted to cave). 

No matter how stubbornly your child clings to the beloved binky, eventually it will be a thing of the past. Once your child is free of the pacifier habit, you’re free as well — from relentlessly searching for them, washing them, and buying them. Enjoy your well-earned liberation. At least, until the next must-have item comes along.

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