Hearing loss is one of the most common side effects of aging. In fact, more than 50% of people over the age of 50 are currently experiencing hearing loss.
However, it is also a complication that is difficult to adapt to. For example, it is closely linked to a range of mental and physical issues, such as social isolation, anxiety and even the rapid development of memory-related conditions such as dementia.
As such, if a loved one is dealing with hearing loss of any severity, they need your support now more than ever. With that in mind, here are just some of the ways in which you can show up for them during this time.
Encourage them to get their hearing tested. Many people experiencing hearing loss will put off addressing it for as long as possible. For example, they may feel that their symptoms are not that severe or that they will go away over time. However, the sooner they get help, the better. This is because they can then access the relevant support and advice.
As such, you should encourage them to get their hearing tested on a regular basis, or right away if they’ve noticed any changes. This is advice that you should also take on board.
Understand the basics of hearing aid maintenance. Wearing hearing aids can be a real game-changer for those experiencing hearing loss. However, they do require a little bit of upkeep. Doing some research ahead of time means that you can support them when adapting to using these tools, as it means you’ll know what to do in emergencies, such as if your hearing aid gets wet.
Be patient. Patience is also key when it comes to supporting those with hearing loss. Remember, they are likely going through a whirlwind of emotions during this time, from anger to sadness, which means they may not act like their ‘usual’ selves for quite some time. The best thing you can do in these scenarios is be patient, while letting them know that you are there for them no matter what. For example, they may want to discuss the topic or ask you to distract them. Show up in whatever way they need!
Change your communication style. Changing up your communication style may also be necessary, especially if their hearing gets worse over time. For example, they may prefer for you to start using visual cues when speaking, such as by using gestures to convey a point, or being a little more emotive with your face. This means that they do not feel left out of the conversation at any point.
Of course, learning sign language can also be helpful, even if it does take some time to get to grips with this.
Final thoughts. Dealing with hearing loss can be isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. By following the steps above, you can provide those around you with the support they need to adapt to this change in their health and well-being.
