When you work in the media like I do it’s really hard to avoid the news. Don’t get me wrong: some days I wish I could avoid it, but I’ve grown to learn a healthy balance of the news can be a good thing. I have so many friends that say, I just can’t watch it — it’s way too depressing. I get that and some days I wish I could just avoid it too. But, the truth is in our fast-paced digital age, the news is more accessible than ever for everyone, and it’s really hard to avoid it. Whether it’s on TV, social media, or even from the mouths of classmates, our kids are increasingly exposed to current events — whether we want them to be or not. So the question then becomes how we should engage with our kids about the news. They might ask questions, wonder, maybe even worry a little themselves. I recommend trying to be proactive with kids and having open conversations. I’m no expert, but from my years of being a momma, here are a few thoughts I have when talking to your kids about current events/news happenings.
Here are some valuable tips to guide parents in having constructive conversations with their kids about the news.
1. Be Proactive and Start Early
This might sound crazy, but it’s never too early to introduce children to the world of news. Younger kids may not understand every detail, but they can grasp simple concepts and form a foundation for understanding more complex issues later. Begin by sharing age-appropriate news stories and discussing them together.
2. Choose Age-Appropriate Sources
If you have kids that can read, then select news sources and content suitable for your child’s age and maturity level. Some media outlets offer kid-friendly news sections that simplify complex issues in a child-friendly manner. Websites like ‘DOGOnews’ are great resources for young readers. You might even benefit from reading some articles simplified for kids too.
3. Don’t Overdo It
The constant barrage of news can be overwhelming for kids. Limit their exposure to graphic or distressing content. Monitor their social media (if they have it). Discuss with them the importance of balance and knowing when to take a break from the news.
4. Look for the Positive
News can be really sad…. and as Mr. Rogers said, “Look for the Helpers”… You’ll always find people helping whenever something terrible happens. And when it happens in the news, we always look for the helpers to emphasize what good we can do in the situation. This can help alleviate fear or anxiety during difficult and sad news stories.
5. Lead by Example
Kids learn by observing their parents. My daughter started wanting to watch the news when she was about 8 years old and we really had to balance what she saw — and balance our reaction to things. Be a positive role model by staying informed, discussing the news with them, and demonstrating respectful and thoughtful behavior when engaging with the news yourself.
Navigating the world of news with your children may seem hard, but with patience, it can really help kids understand the world around us more. And I feel like it can help foster a stronger bond between parents and their kids.
